tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post1760979532492251524..comments2023-09-11T11:11:07.161-05:00Comments on STILL HOPEFUL: Grief and Moving OnMonica Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-59522912360400722762010-09-05T21:38:29.147-05:002010-09-05T21:38:29.147-05:00I am sorry to say I am one of those ones that seem...I am sorry to say I am one of those ones that seems to have moved on and doesnt post anymore. But i do think of you often and your 2 precious boys. I still have the HOPE stone you sent me and looked at it often when prego w/ Amellia. I so hope that you too get your rainbow baby very soon. ((((HUGS))))and I am sorry that i havent been around. I will ry to do better. Take care hon :)Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16200467069135605282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-52457363415602326482010-06-23T17:27:27.041-05:002010-06-23T17:27:27.041-05:00I am still here reading too.
You know I think havi...I am still here reading too.<br />You know I think having IC on top of having difficulty conceiving is just cruel - but I know that kinda of cruel. You will be a success. I know it. the TTC process is tough and I understand that every month you see a BFN it is hard. <br />Just know that people you have never met are thinking of you and sending you positive vibes.<br />I understand about not reading or commenting. DO WHAT you need to do...sometimes I can't go to the websites where bad things are happening. we get that. move on and get a fresh start.<br />Remember to keep trying and keep your eye on the prize. ONe of my friends is 39 and just started getting help for her issues on trying to have a baby. She has been trying on her own for 1.5years. she finds the whole process difficult, but remember that all things worthwile are not easy. Yes they are easy for some including the fertiles (sorry not trying to offend), but most of us have to struggle for what we have.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09762432750827693690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-85106484668584655612010-06-19T19:52:19.877-05:002010-06-19T19:52:19.877-05:00I don't think wanting to look up grief books s...I don't think wanting to look up grief books says that you're depressed, I think it says you wanted to be informed.<br /><br />I wish I had more to say, I hope you know I think about you often! I'm here for you.Kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16561217483266425653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-71613596669896308542010-06-19T07:52:20.796-05:002010-06-19T07:52:20.796-05:00Happy to hear from you! Enjoy your summer! xoxoHappy to hear from you! Enjoy your summer! xoxoerinunbehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16477029046168516439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-20070528131053050582010-06-18T12:07:23.209-05:002010-06-18T12:07:23.209-05:00I have read this post more than once and don't...I have read this post more than once and don't know quite what to say. I'm behind you no matter what b/c you've<br /> been wonderful to me and my girl and because you have such a genuine heart. Your pic is still on my fridge and when people ask I always say it's my friend and her husband from Texas. The last person that asked was my cousin about 3 wks ago. She actually got goosebumps when I told her what you did for Emi with the cupcake and balloon.<br /><br />You are definitely in a better place - I can tell from your tone. I don't like to get caught up in the stages of grief but you have definitely reach acceptance I beleive. But it doesn't mean that other stages won't be revisited several times over.<br />Keep chugging at your dreams and may blogging serve it's purpose of comfort for you - whether you need it daily or sporadically (sp).<br /><br />I wish you nothing but the best...<br /><br />Jadedjadednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-46460727564724124782010-06-18T09:42:48.843-05:002010-06-18T09:42:48.843-05:00Hey Monica,
Just wanted to let you know you'r...Hey Monica,<br /><br />Just wanted to let you know you're still on my mind :). You're such a trooper and an inspiration. Hang in there. ::Hugs::Sophiehttp://www.flour-arrangements.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-5108347604452590142010-06-16T23:56:31.063-05:002010-06-16T23:56:31.063-05:00Oh honey, it is such a process. I was feeling guil...Oh honey, it is such a process. I was feeling guilty about not checking in come to find out you are feeling guilty about the same.<br />I think that we build communities in real life and online that are there when we need them...but also when we don't.<br />I'm glad you are feeling better and I totally understand wanting to focus on you, your situation and I'm so happy it isn't angst filled.<br />When you feel like writing, we'll read. When you have news to share, we'll celebrate. When you aren't writing we'll hope you are doing well.<br />Happy summer, Monica!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12675860422126690809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-42085553832956104272010-06-16T20:13:02.578-05:002010-06-16T20:13:02.578-05:00I found you just the other day and read and read a...I found you just the other day and read and read and read. So even if you don't feel the need to keep posting, your archives are doing wonderful things for people.<br /><br />You know, through all we've been through, we've refused to chart and record and everything. As much as I want a baby, I don't want to break my marriage in order to make that happen. And I need my marriage. <br /><br />I hope you find your blog sweet spot.krissiehttp://www.questionsfordessert.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-45339689206949343552010-06-16T15:22:33.310-05:002010-06-16T15:22:33.310-05:00I just came across your blog. I'm so sorry for...I just came across your blog. I'm so sorry for both your losses!!! It's good to know we don't have to walk this road alone. Thinking of you, Hannah Rose from roseandherlily.blogspot.comHannah Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03789383446266473340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-75997020294414897532010-06-16T15:21:47.324-05:002010-06-16T15:21:47.324-05:00I just came across your blog. I'm so sorry for...I just came across your blog. I'm so sorry for both your losses!!! It's good to know we don't have to walk this road alone. Thinking of you, Hannah Rose from roseandherlily.blogspot.comHannah Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03789383446266473340noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-89338225792795992362010-06-16T08:23:26.208-05:002010-06-16T08:23:26.208-05:00I have been absent a lot too. I am happy for the m...I have been absent a lot too. I am happy for the moms who are expecting, but it is a constant reminder of what I am missing. I am also at a different place in my grief, and it hurts me to read the stories of recent losses. While I am still grieving greatly, the pain is not as intense anymore. I completely understand where you are coming from. Though I may not blog as often, I am still here to give support whenever needed. Thinking of and praying for you.Marie Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18203552551406512142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-55606881814823599362010-06-16T00:33:50.775-05:002010-06-16T00:33:50.775-05:00You are too cool.You are too cool.Coleens Recipeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13273119586207995489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-63184962588407752222010-06-15T22:54:57.901-05:002010-06-15T22:54:57.901-05:00I'm still here reading too — and thinking of y...I'm still here reading too — and thinking of you often. Whenever you need or want to post, we'll be reading :)<br /><br />XOXOThe Nannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09840319949362558089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-91027228782516323272010-06-15T14:16:39.435-05:002010-06-15T14:16:39.435-05:00All this means is that you've made terrific pr...All this means is that you've made terrific progress. Everything you've experienced and felt is perfectly understandable. Be kind to yourself, you've earned it!Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17283941721180439222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-2926224589841134512010-06-15T02:43:44.481-05:002010-06-15T02:43:44.481-05:00I love you girl and I'm still here and still r...I love you girl and I'm still here and still reading xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com