tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post9092058919255385139..comments2023-09-11T11:11:07.161-05:00Comments on STILL HOPEFUL: Ready To Talk- Part 1Monica Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-9904094025050692192009-02-07T12:44:00.000-06:002009-02-07T12:44:00.000-06:00oh wow. this hurts me. and you know, not for a sec...oh wow. this hurts me. and you know, not for a second do i think badly about your husband. I see the logic, it's painful and uncomfortable and it sickens me to the pit of my stomach because as sad as it is to admit, there is a point to this and he is being a loving father in his own way. he is looking out for a future child incase the worst happens again.<BR/><BR/>i can relate because i want to get memorial tatoos for Emi and Daniella but am afraid that if i need another one (please God, no more dead babies!!!) it won't work for the first two.<BR/><BR/>so i get it and boy do i hope you NEVER have to use it.<BR/>big hugs and please don't be hard on him! please see what he is really doing.Jaded Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16789555884417942932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-56657717774870692662009-01-31T18:05:00.000-06:002009-01-31T18:05:00.000-06:00God forbid that anything happens...but Mr. H's hea...God forbid that anything happens...but Mr. H's heart is in the right place as far as I'm concerned. My boys are separated by a nameless plot and it just kills me.<BR/><BR/>Honestly it doesn't matter anyway because you won't be using that "property".mrsmuellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11270030590565650295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-29468027911507882542009-01-30T07:01:00.000-06:002009-01-30T07:01:00.000-06:00maybe having it will mean you do not need it. you ...maybe having it will mean you do not need it. you didn't have the others ahead of time...I'm sorry you have to deal with any of this at all.Two by C (section)https://www.blogger.com/profile/12229408012886628966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-48790846436899735372009-01-28T14:16:00.000-06:002009-01-28T14:16:00.000-06:00That must have been heart-breaking to find.I hope ...That must have been heart-breaking to find.<BR/><BR/>I hope you & Mr. H. can find hope together.<BR/><BR/>I want to write more, Ethan's sick today & not letting me outta his sight. I'll call you soon!<BR/><BR/>Love you!Kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16561217483266425653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-83812309314609098592009-01-28T09:56:00.000-06:002009-01-28T09:56:00.000-06:00Oh Monica, you've been keeping a lot of things bot...Oh Monica, you've been keeping a lot of things bottled up inside. I've always thought that men handle emotional things differently than women do, and once I realized and accepted that, life became more tolerable. Please know that you and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers. <BR/><BR/>I really hope that you can continue to work on things and get to the point where you can be totally open and honest with each other, because as time goes on, you will need that. <BR/><BR/>After seeing how my husband dealt with our three miscarriages and then my cancer, I realized how strong of a person he was, and it was the cancer that brought us so much closer than we had ever been.<BR/><BR/>It's possible for men to change and grow...just remember that.Cindihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05223695299377158162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-22879657064683675102009-01-27T18:53:00.000-06:002009-01-27T18:53:00.000-06:00I think it has to be hard on both of you.Men have ...I think it has to be hard on both of you.Men have their way of dealing with things and we have ours.I dont think hes a bad guy its just a mans way of thinking about things..praying that you dont ever have to worry about using that other plot..I think you have great Dr,s that will be with you every step of the way.take care of yourself..<BR/>thanks for opening up..always here for you...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-7097636062358893952009-01-27T17:03:00.000-06:002009-01-27T17:03:00.000-06:00wow... that is rough. I'm glad you are opening up....wow... that is rough. I'm glad you are opening up. I hope you two can find a peaceful way to move forward, whatever the direction may be.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you!Henniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13619441212339613269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-34173419824714003822009-01-27T10:54:00.000-06:002009-01-27T10:54:00.000-06:00I'm here to say exactly what Becky did. Thinking o...I'm here to say exactly what Becky did. Thinking of you.The Nannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09840319949362558089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-70481789069827380302009-01-27T08:58:00.000-06:002009-01-27T08:58:00.000-06:00(((hugs)))We're always here for you.(((hugs)))<BR/><BR/>We're always here for you.Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04161170990042501514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-90838105335075689922009-01-27T08:32:00.000-06:002009-01-27T08:32:00.000-06:00Gosh, that is tough. Since I'm not in the situati...Gosh, that is tough. Since I'm not in the situation, I can see where both of you are coming from. I would have been upset too, but realize that grief makes us do things we wouldn't normally be compelled to do.<BR/><BR/>I don't think you are going to bury another baby. I don't know why, I just do.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09708675281321049193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-86003564605151198662009-01-27T06:34:00.000-06:002009-01-27T06:34:00.000-06:00Monica,That makes my heart so sad. On one hand I t...Monica,<BR/>That makes my heart so sad. On one hand I think he is a sensitive, nice husband to even think of it. He was worried that "if" it happened again, he wanted them to be together. I'm sure that I would have reacted like you though. That he doesn't think that you can bring a baby home. BUT it also tells me that he may be ready to try again? Obviously, I don't know the answers to any of this, but can see it from both sides I guess. I pray that you and your husband have another precious baby! Thinking of you! Katiemy3sonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14686643278121513340noreply@blogger.com