tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post9175524669121127146..comments2023-09-11T11:11:07.161-05:00Comments on STILL HOPEFUL: What Stupid People Say (Edited)Monica Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-38989131360117685812008-12-11T17:30:00.000-06:002008-12-11T17:30:00.000-06:00but you see, when things are so easily given they ...but you see, when things are so easily given they are just as easily taken for granted. shoot, if you would have told me that painting the tip of my nose with purple dots what have gotten Emi & Daniella here safely, you bet ya' I would have done it...<BR/>at least you tell her these things...she will never be able to say "no one told me".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-53474683915261012892008-12-10T08:49:00.000-06:002008-12-10T08:49:00.000-06:00I understood where you were coming from, it is jus...I understood where you were coming from, it is just a really interesting topic.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09708675281321049193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-18058687751171113392008-12-10T00:34:00.000-06:002008-12-10T00:34:00.000-06:00I am truly sorry about your dad. Some men just are...I am truly sorry about your dad. Some men just aren't cut out to be dads. But I am thankful he "decided" to be a father....otherwise you wouldn't be here!<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your sweet comment!bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02513323554208934044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-59425077565003038002008-12-09T20:27:00.000-06:002008-12-09T20:27:00.000-06:00misplaced decimal, should be 0.1% not 0.01%misplaced decimal, should be 0.1% not 0.01%Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09708675281321049193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-77032585294755836782008-12-09T20:24:00.000-06:002008-12-09T20:24:00.000-06:00Sorry about your dad.When I first read your commen...Sorry about your dad.<BR/><BR/>When I first read your comment, I felt defensive, but I since I have read for awhile, I understand where you are coming from.<BR/><BR/>We had LG sleep on his stomach, and I have found out it is a lot more common than you would realize. Everyone I know who let their infant sleep on their stomach, never told anyone until they met someone else who did it. Between a third and half the moms I know allowed their babies to sleep on their stomachs.<BR/><BR/>Trust me, I worried to no end, but after several weeks of no sleep, we gave in. We started the stomach sleeping when he was about 4 weeks which co-insided with him rolling over. Also, SIDS is more prevalent in low income families, women who smoke, from overheating, sharing a bed, and I wasn't a teenager. We didn't have any of the other risk factors.<BR/><BR/>In the US, the current rate of SIDS is 3000 deaths per year out of 4,000,000 births, that is less than .01%. The overall infant death rate is .68%.<BR/><BR/>In 1992 when the back to sleep campaign started, the SIDS death rate was 5000 which tells me that it isn't just prevented by having a baby sleep on his/her back. A lot of it may be attributed to "code-shifting", classifying a death as something other than SIDS that is found only after the autopsy.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, although I don't think putting a baby to sleep on the stomach is the worst thing a parent can do, if we are blessed with another child, I will do the back thing first.<BR/><BR/>Oh, and I did have to go back and look up all the statistics, but I did it originally when we made the decision for LG. And my sister's pedi agreed with us on this issue. Ours didn't.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09708675281321049193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-40340241075810320712008-12-09T12:22:00.000-06:002008-12-09T12:22:00.000-06:00Oh, that's so frustrating...Why on EARTH would she...Oh, that's so frustrating...Why on EARTH would she even risk hurting her baby for better sleep?!?!? Good lord. Every time you write about her she reminds me more and more of Mrs. R.The Nannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09840319949362558089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-69355769415091535072008-12-09T09:22:00.000-06:002008-12-09T09:22:00.000-06:00OMG why are people so stupid and careless? meanwhi...OMG why are people so stupid and careless? meanwhile if it did happen to her, she'd never stop the "why me" kinda thing I'd bet my life on it. If you can prevent bad things happening to your children, you do. its as simple as that. pure laziness...he sleeps better? yeah well one day he might not wake up either. I wish I could smack people I really do.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2982174673054423605.post-43168432793069526482008-12-09T09:08:00.000-06:002008-12-09T09:08:00.000-06:00I'm sorry you saw that about your dad. (((hugs)))...I'm sorry you saw that about your dad. (((hugs)))<BR/><BR/>She can't even fathom something happening to her child because it's not even in her realm of thinking. She doesn't know what she could loose.<BR/><BR/>We had to put L on her stomach to sleep for naps, and for a little while at night. I was a wreck. Luckily she was still on her monitor, but it was the only way she slept for weeks with her reflux. The doctor told us that he didn't recommend it, but it was the only way she'd sleep and without a doubt, she slept soundly but Derick and I stood watch over her crib. Now she's on her back, on a wedge, and sleeps perfectly.<BR/><BR/>"They" say that the child can nap on their stomach if you are in the room. No way in hell I would leave them alone.Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04161170990042501514noreply@blogger.com